Separation Guidance


Sarah Chan
Solicitor - Family Law

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Every year a great many relationships end in separation or divorce. Often when people separate emotions are running at their highest and it is sometimes difficult to think clearly and rationally. We offer good common sense practical advice, a sympathetic attitude and a friendly, efficient and quality service. There are services available such as Marriage Guidance and Relate who can offer advice and information to couples who have separated. Generally the discussions are about how to save the relationship/marriage but can also help the couples deal with issues amicably.

MEDIATION
This is a service that is directed towards making a separation easier and less traumatic. There are a number of trained and experienced mediators including specially trained lawyers who can act as a neutral and independent go-between. Mediators will deal with all aspects of separation including the children's needs and financial matters.

PERMANENT SEPARATION
If the separation is likely to be permanent or for a significant period of time (say for more than a few months) then is might be worthwhile getting a formal written SEPARATION AGREEMENT put into place.

SEPARATION AGREEMENT OR DEED
This would be a contract between both parties which would deal with all aspects of the separation. The parties must both voluntarily agree to the terms.

DETAILS IN A SEPARATION AGREEMENT
A formal written separation agreement can contain a number of valuable terms and conditions. These can include the following:

• An Agreement to Separate
• Not to Molest or Assault each other
• Payment of Maintenance
• Payment of Debts and Bills
• Who will live in the Matrimonial Home
• Arrangements for the Children
• An Agreement to Divorce at a later date
Please use and adapt our own SEPARATION AGREEMENT Deed.

JUDICIAL SEPARATION
This is a legal process very similar to Divorce. It is often used by people who for religious reasons are against the concept of divorce and use this as a valid alternative. This procedure would not enable either party to re-marry. This procedure does give the court the power to make orders about children, property and other financial issues.

GUIDANCE AND HELP
We aim to provide our clients with a quality legal service. We will help and support you. We will provide a professional and efficient service. We will use plain English and not legal jargon. All matters are completely confidential.

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